maise (original poster member #69516) posted at 8:11 AM on Friday, June 27th, 2025
Shes 15. I caught her boyfriend here and made him leave. This was the second time.
She and I got into an argument after I made him leave. She then settled down and went to her room. I went in to check on her and saw that she left out her window.
I called the cops and they confirmed her boyfriend is also a runaway. He’s 16.
I’m so scared. I am supposed to be sleeping and getting ready to go to work tomorrow and I can’t even function thinking about the dangers she could be in. I don’t know what else to do right now. I’m not okay.
BW (SSM) D-Day: 6/9/2018 Status: Divorced
"Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
— Rumi
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:16 PM on Friday, June 27th, 2025
Oh goodness how frightening.
Prayers and mojo you hear from her soon and that she returns home.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:11 PM on Friday, June 27th, 2025
Also sending mojo.
I suggest telling your boss you're dealing with this.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 4:30 PM on Friday, June 27th, 2025
Prayers for her safe return.
The issue is if he’s not a good guy and you try to shield her from him, the more she will want to be with him.
Get her home. Get her counseling.
She’s "in love" and just not maybe seeing the reality of it all. Some girls are just attracted to that bad boy image.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
